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Top 10 sex facts from history

Posted by Barka Manjha Sunday, February 12, 2012 0 comments

Have you got a receipt for your wife, sir?

In 953 Princess Olga of Russia introduced a law whereby men could ask to, essentially, return their wives if they found out they were not virgins. The husbands could ask for monetary or material compensation if they discovered that their wives were more experienced than they had hoped.

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Sex is the best medicine

If you were feeling sick in the 19th century then it was quite possible that your doctor may have prescribed you a dose of alone time with a sex toy, ladies. The Museum of Sex explains that vibrator-induced orgasms helped doctors identify “hysteria” and its symptoms.

Love and marriage

In the 12th century a book was written called The Art of Courtly Love. Within it there were 31 rules that told the British upper-class how to love and who they could love. It told the rich that “True love can have no place between husband and wife” and that marriage should be thought of as a business arrangement.

Size mattered

If you thought that men’s issue with the size of their manhood was a 21st century thing then think again guys and girls. In the Middle Ages it was highly fashionable for British men to wear a codpiece. A codpiece was a flap or pouch that men wore over their trousers to exaggerate the size of their crotch.

Playing away from home

We all know the WWII poster that urged men and women to “Keep calm and carry on” but have you heard about the other, naughtier slogan that was printed in government brochures? The slogan went: "Don't forget – Put it on before you put it in." It was no surprise that many men returned from WWII with sexually transmitted diseases.

Top 10 sex facts from history

Burlesque

Burlesque may seem like a modern day phenomena, but the truth is Burlesque, in one form or another, has been around for centuries. The queen of burlesque, Dita Von Tease, points to Aristophanes as being the “founder” of the striptease. Aristophanes wrote a cheeky, titillating play back in the 5th century BC.

The G Spot

The G spot was unidentified until 1950 when Dr. Ernest Gräfenberg underwent a few experiments and found that attention to this area could trigger powerful O moments in women. Dr. Ernest Gräfenberg is in fact the G spot’s namesake and was also the first to claim that this spot could cause female ejaculation.

The first pornography

It turns out that pornography has always been taboo. In 1524 the horny Marcantonio Raimondi published 16 engravings of people throughout history getting it on. Unfortunately for Marcantonio the Pope at the time did not share his open approach to sex and placed poor Raimondi in prison for a year.

The changing shape of boobs

These days it would seem that most women want bigger boobs, but like our clothes boobs have always been subject to changing fashions. In the Middle Ages people preferred small boobs and women wore corsets that flattened their chests. During the Renaissance it was popular in Spain to have cone shaped boobs – it seems Madonna was not the trend setter we once thought.

Contraception

It was only in the mid 1600s that condoms were used as a contraceptive. These early condoms were made from linen. It would seem that women were a little more proactive when it came to contraception than the guys. Women used crocodile dung, honey, mercury, sneezing and jumping backwards as early as 1850 BC.

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Are you stuck in a so-so marriage?

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THE happily-ever-after phrase is a far off dream in modern marriages.

Relationship counsellors harp on the fact that couples should stick together in not-so-happy marriages because of obligation, partnership and convenience. And now a controversial new book reiterates the fact. Written by historian and feminist thinker Pamela Haag, Marriage Confidential: The Post-Romantic Age of Workhorse Wives, Royal Children, Undersexed Spouses, and Rebel Couples classifies modern marriages into various


categories. We take a brief look at each of them and ask experts if they exist in the urban Indian scenario.


SEMI-HAPPY STATE

IF THE relationship with your spouse is affectionate but passionless, don’t sweat, you are part of the majority. Couples who continue in such marriages are trapped in a situation where things aren’t too bad to opt out or good enough to bring joy, Haag says. Married for ten years, Shilpi and Avidesh Kumar (both 38), have a hectic work schedule. They travel 15 days in a month and their marriage has already drifted into a predictable routine. “ We spend no more than a week or 10 days together in a month... that too staggered,” says Shilpi, a public relations executive with a Noida- based company.

Avidesh, a sales manager, says: "When we meet there is only enough time to exchange brickbats over finances. Our relationship has become too predictable,” says Kumar. According to Hagg, these semi-happy married couples are always in a dilemma. One moment they feel they are in a good, strong marriage, and the next, they resent it and think of ways to get out.

According to lifestyle management expert Rachna Singh, in a fast-paced world where both partners work, semi- happy marriages is the norm and the commonnest in India. Surprisingly it’s highly functional. “It’s not a miserable condition, but you can’t call it successful either. Both spouses are like business partners or friends bound by social or personal commitments. But deep satisfaction and happiness are missing," says Singh.

Family and marriage counsellor Gitanjali Sharma says 90 per cent of Indian marriages belong to this category. "The problem is not with the marriages, but their thinking. These couples are indecisive and unhappy because their expectations are too high,” says Dr Sharma.

PARENTING MARRIAGE

HAAG, a mother of one, says children often turn out to be the reason why couples continue in a marriage. With children being socially included more than ever before, she feels parenting turns out to be the sole priority, crowding out other functions.

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essional Sameer Babu and his wife Sunanda are together for the sake of their 14-year-old son. Both have an active social life. Their relationships outside their marriage are no secret among friends.

"I am waiting for my son to go abroad for higher studies. That will be a new beginning for him and me. I am seriously thinking of ending this relationship,” admits Sunanda.

Sharma says the trend is very common among parents in India. "Over 40 per cent of couples stay together for the sake of their children. They often part ways once the children grow up and live a life of their own," she says.

However, Sharma warns that even in such a situation, the children suffer the most and many end up with personality disorders.

WORKHORSE WIFE

THE workhorse wife is the exhausted breadwinner as opposed to her dream- chasing husband. These marriages too are beginning to be seen in India.

Dr Singh puts its prevalence to a 60: 40 ratio. “ This is a marriage with imbalances. In such cases, the lady takes all the responsibility while the husband chases an impossible dream. The chances of such marriages falling apart are very high," says Dr Singh. Recollecting one of her cases, she says how one of her client Sarita Kurup ( name changed) is going through hell.

Kurup a mid-level staffer in a Gurgaon- based MNC is at her wits end with her husband of seven years who has been trying to get a foothold as an artist. "I have been supporting the family, working long hours without a vacation for seven years but my husband doesn’t even make an effort to understand what I am going through. He takes me for granted, I am left with no other option than divorce,” says Kurup.

ED MCMAHON RULE

TAKING inspiration from the eternal sidekick and American TV show host, Ed McMahon, Haag brands it as a syndrome, where one spouse just accept what the other says. Even outlandish suggestions are accepted. Singh cautions that such marriages are fraught with dangers that will spoil the relationship and damage a person’s self esteem. “ It’s obvious that in such a relationship, one partner will be dominant and the other one meek,” says Singh.

THE SEMI-MARRIED

RUHI and Sabir Ahuja are the cynosure of all eyes at social gatherings. They conduct themselves with grace, but have been estranged for five years. Little do people realise how plastic their smiles are when they socialise. “ Such cases are on the rise. Many couple choose to live separately rather than divorce due to social obligations. It is a convenient arrangement," says Sharma.


AN SOS

HAAG’S book isn’t all about the predicaments that surround marriage. She has a few suggestions on how to get the zing back.

She advises people to save their marriage by turning into a 'new monogamist' — her term for an open marriage. Our experts, however, disagree. "Marriage is about commitment. Open marriages and contract marriages are not the solutions, but only temporary options that make couples insecure. One should look inward, instead of outward for happiness. Strong communication and unconditional love saves a marriage,” advises Sharma.

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Use These 8 Foods to Help You Lose Weight

Posted by sunita Monday, August 30, 2010 1 comments

Sure, we all know the basic nutrition rules when it comes to safeguarding our health and losing weight. In the words of best-selling nutrition writer Michael Pollan, "Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants." Sounds simple, but if you're interested in maximizing the amount of nutrients you get, you may want to be a little choosy when selecting among various options in each food group. Some fruits, vegetables, grains, and dairy products stand out as nutritional superstars, according to the latest research. And they're also easy on the calorie count to help you shed pounds. Consider incorporating these foods into your daily meal plan:

 

Watermelon- It's not only delicious, but packs a wallop of antioxidants like vitamins A and C. It also contains lycopene, a plant chemical found in studies to lower your risk of cancer, heart disease and age-related vision loss due to macular degeneration. Just as gratifying: One cup of cubed watermelon contains less than 50 calories, not too damaging for your waistline.



 
2. Avocado- This extremely versatile fruit can be used in salads, sandwiches, and guacamole. Filled with heart-healthy monounsaturated fats, avocado is a healthful alternative to mayonnaise and can help lower "bad" LDL cholesterol levels. Just watch your portions. One-quarter of a medium-sized avocado contains 65 calories, so you don't want to overdo it.



 

3. Sweet Potato. A medium-sized sweet potato (about the size of your fist) fulfills your daily requirement for vitamin A and provides 4 grams of fiber. And you'll save half the calories compared to a white potato: A medium-sized sweet potato has only 150 calories compared to nearly 300 for a white one of the same size.


 
4. Salmon- This, as well as other fatty fish like tuna, mackerel, and lake trout, is a great source of Omega-3 fatty acids, which have been shown to reduce the risk of heart disease. At only 160 calories for a 4-ounce serving, baked or broiled salmon is a great main course for those watching their weight. Add steamed broccoli and a sweet potato for a nutritious, low-cal meal.


 

5. Raspberries. They're a terrific dessert when paired with plain yogurt and a great natural way to tame those sugar cravings while keeping your calorie count to a minimum. A 1-cup serving of fresh berries contains just 60 calories. Raspberries are also a great source of B vitamins, flavonoids, fiber, and vitamin C.




6. Onions. A cup of chopped onions only contains 60 calories and using them in stir-fries, soups and casseroles is a great way to integrate the plant chemical quercetin into your diet. Quercetin has been found to have "anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties," according to the American Cancer Society, and may prove to be protective "against a wide variety of diseases, including cancer."




7. Greek Yogurt. At 150 calories per cup, it makes a filling snack and also provides you with a hefty dose of protein. Eating adequate amounts of protein will help boost the results of any strength-training you do, helping you put on muscle—a key component for weight management. Every pound of muscle you add burns an extra 35 to 50 calories per day.









8. Quinoa. This grain has more fiber and protein than most grains with 3 grams of fiber and 6 grams of protein per quarter-cup serving. That means it's more effective at keeping your blood sugar levels stable, leaving you feeling satiated and less likely to start eating again hours later. For this reason, it's also a smarter carbohydrate option than white rice and pasta if you have diabetes. Cook quinoa with fresh herbs, an array of vegetables, and a small amount of olive oil for a complete meal.

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Effects of Vitamin C in Human Body

Posted by sunita Wednesday, June 9, 2010 0 comments

Vitamin C is a water-soluble vitamin, otherwise known as ascorbic acid. Vitamin C is very essential to your family health that increases your resistant system especially now that Influenza a (H1N1) is threatening everybody’s health; better eat vitamin C-rich foods everyday. It reduces blood pressure, has the ability to reduce the severity of colds and could protect you against cataract and certain cancers too. The benefits of vitamin C may include protection against immune system deficiencies, cardiovascular disease, prenatal health problems, eye disease, and even skin wrinkling
Red and green bell peppers, strawberries, citrus fruits, raw tomatoes, cantaloupe and broccoli are food that is rich in vitamin C. Garlic contains vitamin C too. On a book about health benefit of garlic, a professor of School Tropical Medicine from Calcutta, India revealed that vitamin C act like insulin in the body, it helps metabolize carbohydrates. Not only that, several researchers showed that vitamin C serves as great therapeutic measure in case of ulcers.


"Strive to eat nine servings of fruits and vegetables daily, because you will get a healthy dose of vitamin C along with an abundance of other vitamins, minerals, and physiochemical that are good for disease prevention and overall health".

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Vaginal Yeast Infection and It’s Treatment

Posted by sunita Monday, May 24, 2010 0 comments

Vaginal yeast infections, also called "Candida vaginal infections," these are caused by the Candida albicans fungus and presented in human body like vagina. Those Women are affected whose bodies are under stress from poor diet, lack of sleep, illness, in pregnancy time or taking antibiotics. If they are having diabetes and HIV infection it’s a major factor of vaginal yeast infection.
Symptoms of Vaginal Yeast Infection
•    Itching and burning the vaginal area
•    vaginal irritation
•    pain during urination and intercourse
•    odorless vaginal discharge (like thick whitish-gray)




Prevention
To help prevent vaginal yeast infections, you can try the following suggestions:
•    Keep the external genital area clean and dry.
•    Avoid irritating soaps (including bubble bath), vaginal sprays and douches.
•    Change tampons and sanitary napkins frequently.
•    Put on loose cotton underwear that doesn't catch moisture.
•    Change quickly into your dry clothing after swimming, instead of sitting in your wet bathing suit for lingering periods.
•    Take antibiotics only when prescribed by your doctor, and never take them for longer than your doctor directs.
•    If you are diabetic, try to keep tight control over your blood sugar levels.
Treatment
Vaginal yeast infections may be treated with antifungal medicines that are applied directly into the vagina as tablets, creams, ointments.
Vaginal yeast infections are not transmitted sexually but if a male sex partner shows symptoms of Candida balanitis means irritation and itching at the tip of the penis that person need to be treated with an antifungal cream or ointment.
Presently, this disease is cured by 2 weeks of oral medication, followed by up to 6 months of a lower maintenance dose.

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Gastrointestinal (GI) - a common disease causes chest pain

Posted by sunita Friday, May 14, 2010 1 comments

The esophagus (food pipe) runs through the thoracic cavity and any disorder affecting this part of the gastrointestinal tract may cause chest pain. Apart from a portion of the stomach which can protrude into the thoracic cavity in the case of a hiatal hernia, the other main parts of the gastrointestinal area are within the abdomen. However these associated organs and other sections of the GI tract located with the abdomen may cause referred pain to the chest.
Causes of GI Chest Pain
It is important to note if the chest pain is emanating and isolated to the chest cavity itself or if there is pain present elsewhere in the body as well. This will aid with a diagnosis. Most cases of GI chest pain is not life threatening and should only be considered once the causes of lung chest pain or heart chest pain have been excluded.

Gastroespohageal reflux (GERD)
This is one of the most common causes of chest pain that created by gastrointestinal causes. It is often mistaken for heart chest pain and is one of the common reasons for late night visits to the emergency room.
The rising gastric acid irritates the lining of the esophagus and is often felt as a burning sensation, hence the term heartburn. And also cause esophageal pain which may not be experienced as a burning sensation. Regular episodes of reflux may also cause visceral hypersensitivity so even eating or drinking afterwards may trigger pain.
It is relived by the use of antacids and may be accompanied with other symptoms like vomiting, back pain and excessive belching.
Gas Bloating
There are a number of causes of gas within the gastrointestinal tract and this can result in stretching which triggers contraction of the burn up wall. When occurring in the esophagus, the pain is relieved upon belching. Gas lower down in the gastrointestinal tract may not be easy to pass out through the mouth and the pain from the abdomen may be referred to the chest. Excessive gas tends to occur a short while after eating and even if there is a lack of belching, excessive flatulence may be noticed as the air has to be expelled from the gut.

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AVOID SOME HARMFUL PRODUCT

Posted by sunita Friday, February 5, 2010 0 comments

Mobile
Don't put your mobile closer to your ears until the recipient
answers, Because directly after dialing, the mobile phone would use
its maximum signaling power.Which is: 2watts = 33dbi. Please Be Careful. Please use left ear while using cell (mobile), because if you use the right one it may affect brain directly. This is a true fact from Apollo medical team.


APPY FIZZ

Do not drink APPY FIZZ. It contains cancer causing
agent.






Mentos
Don't eat Mentos before or after drinking Coke or Pepsi coz the person will die immediately as the mixture becomes cyanide. Please forward to whom u care.




Kurkure

Don't eat kurkure because it contains high amount of plastic if U don't Believe burn kurkure and you can see plastic melting. Please forward to all!!!!!!!!! !! News
report from Times of India.



Avoid these tablets as they are very dangerous
* D cold
* Vicks action- 500
* Actified
* Coldarin
* Co some
* Nice
* Nimulid
* Cetrizet-D
They contain Phenyl- Propanol -Amide PPA..Which Causes strokes, and these tablets are banned in U.S.
Cotton Ear Buds

Cotton Ear Buds... (Must read it) Please do not show sympathy to people selling buds on roadside or at Signals..... Just wanted to warn you people not to buy those packs of ear buds you get at the roadside.It's made from cotton that has already been used in hospitals. They take all the dirty, blood and pus filled cotton, wash it, bleach it and use it to make ear buds. So, unless you want to become the first person in the world to get Herpes Zoster Oticus (aviral infection of the inner, middle, and external ear) of the ear and that too from a cotton bud, DON'T BUY THEM!

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